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The Marginalian.

Maria Popova exploring literature, philosophy, art, and the search for meaning.

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Dostoyevsky, Just After His Death Sentence Was Repealed, on the Meaning of Life

"To be a human being among people and to remain one forever, no matter in what circumstances, not to grow despondent and not to lose heart — that’s what life is all about, that's its task."

How to Be Transformed When Things Fall Apart

"Only to the extent that we expose ourselves over and over to annihilation can that which is indestructible be found in us."

The Wildest Bet Is the Winning Bet

We place life’s bets by countless calculations of probability, conscious and unconscious, only to discover over and over how short they fall of the wildest reaches of the possible, which always includes but exceeds the probable. It helps to remember that we ou…

Ursula K. Le Guin on the Meaning of Life

We are the survivors of immense and minute events — violent cosmic collisions and subtle genetic mutations, the deaths of innumerable suns and the births of innumerable cells, the splitting of continents and the splitting of atoms. Out of it all, we emerged as…

Nathaniel Hawthorne on How to Look and Really See

"The mystery is revealed, and after a breath or two, becomes just as great a mystery as before."

Introducing the Museum of Delight

After twenty years of making immaterial things with my mind — ideas sculpted of words, questions woven of sentences, translucent vessels for thought and feeling in the shape of poems — I found myself overcome by the urge to make things with my hands out of mat…

How to Hold Your Heart with Golden Hands

One bleak English winter a long time ago, wandering through London in the wake of a relationship that had just unraveled, I walked into an antiquarian bookstore and chanced upon a rare century-old edition of the Brothers Grimm fairy tales — which I had grown u…

Corrective for a Broken Heart

“Life will break you,” Louise Erdrich wrote in her passionate insistence that “you are here to risk your heart.” It can happen with a shattering, or with a thousand small fissures, but the great paradox — the great salvation — is that every time it happens, yo…

How to Be Un-Dead: Notes on Waking Up from the Trance of Near-Living

"Life is a process of becoming, a combination of states we have to go through. Where people fail is that they wish to elect a state and remain in it. This is a kind of death."

How to Grow Old without Letting Life Become a Parody of Itself

"In old age we should wish still to have passions strong enough to prevent us turning in on ourselves."

The Constitution of the Inner Country: Leonard Cohen on Language and the Poetry of Presence

"The poem is nothing but information. It is the Constitution of the inner country."

How to Stop Waiting and Start Living: A Jolt from Henry James

"It wouldn't have been failure to be bankrupt, dishonoured, pilloried, hanged; it was failure not to be anything."

Love After Life: Nobel-Winning Physicist Richard Feynman’s Extraordinary Letter to His Departed Wife

Where the hard edge of physics meets the vulnerable metaphysics of the human heart.

When Relationships Change: Anne Morrow Lindbergh on Embracing the Intermittency and Mutability of Love

"All living relationships are in process of change, of expansion, and must perpetually be building themselves new forms."

20 Truths about Life from 20 Years of The Marginalian: A Ceramics and Lichen Raffle

It is an odd thing, looking back on your life, trying to recognize in the mirror of memory the people you used to be, finding them strangers: the person who kissed your first kiss, the person who drank your last drink, the person who had your best idea, the pe…

How to Unself in Order to Be Who You Really Are

"The self, the place where we live, is a place of illusion. Goodness is connected with the attempt to see the unself... to pierce the veil of selfish consciousness and join the world as it really is."

Celebrating 20 Years of The Marginalian and the Search for Meaning: Free Livestream This Friday

At the dawn of my twenties, lonely, destitute, and disoriented by the demands of making a new life in an alien world, I started keeping notes on my search for meaning while working four jobs to pay my way through college. On October 23, 2006, I began sharing m…

The Map to the Route of Your Life

No one will map for you the path by which you must cross the wilderness of your own life — not your parents or your teachers, not your heroes or your lovers, not the self-help books or Shakespeare’s sonnets. Some may give you signposts, some may become turning…

Bloom: A Touching Animated Short Film about Depression and What It Takes to Recover the Light of Being

How the warm rays of hope and healing enter the dark inner chamber of leaden loneliness through the unexpected cracks of kindness.

The Single Most Effective Remedy for Despair: Advice from T.H. White’s Merlyn

"Learn why the world wags and what wags it. That is the only thing which the mind can never exhaust, never alienate, never be tortured by, never fear or distrust, and never dream of regretting."

The Day Dostoyevsky Discovered the Meaning of Life in a Dream

"And it is so simple... You will instantly find how to live."

The Other Significant Others: Living and Loving Outside the Confines of Conventional Friendship and Compulsory Coupledom

"While we weaken friendships by expecting too little of them, we undermine romantic relationships by expecting too much of them."

Bruce Springsteen on Surviving Depression and His Strategy for Living Through the Visitations of the Darkness

"If you can acknowledge it and you can relax with it a little bit, very often it shortens its duration."

How to Hold Your Helplessness: Nobel Laureate Bertrand Russell’s Salve for the Anxiety of Overwhelm

"A way of life cannot be successful so long as it is a mere intellectual conviction. It must be deeply felt, deeply believed, dominant even in dreams."

How Not to Waste Your Life

“Let me not seem to have lived in vain,” the Danish astronomer Tycho Brahe whispered on his deathbed, not realizing that the astronomical tables he was leaving behind would become the portal through which Kepler arrives at the laws of planetary motion; not rea…

An Introvert’s Field Guide to Friendship: Thoreau on the Challenges and Rewards of Candid Connection

"We only need to be as true to others as we are to ourselves that there may be ground enough for friendship."

NostradamusGPT: The Psychology of Prophecy and How to Break Free from the Prison of Predictive Technologies

This is our paradox: We know that uncertainty is the substrate of the universe, is the crucible of creativity, is the path to truth, and yet we spend our lives searching for certainty. The word auspicious derives from the Latin auspex — one who examines the fl…

Probability Theory Pioneer Mark Kac on the Unpredictability of Creativity and the Two Types of Geniuses

"Creative people live in two worlds. One is the ordinary world which they share with others and in which they are not in any special way set apart from their fellow men. The other is private and it is in this world that the creative acts take place."

Nobel Laureate Doris Lessing on Breaking Free from the Prisons We Choose to Live Inside

This is the history of the world: revolutionaries turning into tyrants, leaders who claim to stand with the masses turning the individuals within them on each other, stirring certainties and self-righteousness to distract from the uncomfortable unknowns, from…

Hermann Hesse on How to Read a Book and How to Read Yourself

Books show us what it is like to be another and at the same time return us to ourselves. We read to learn how to live — how to love and how to suffer, how to grieve and how to be glad. We read to clarify ourselves and to anneal our values. We read for the assu…